Being unmarry should be a very special time for you; A time to study and learn; To think about what you would like to do in the future; To develop friendships; And to grow into the kind of person you want to be as an adult.This is an exciting time for you to discover the opposite sex buh without having to deal with the complications of being involved in sexual activity. Dating can be a lot of fun without sex! Getting into the sexual scene can short-circuit the growth you need to become a mature adult!. Don't be afraid you will lose him or her if you say "NO" to sex.If your boyfriend wants you only for your physical self, then they aren't worth it. Ten Good Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex When You Haven't Marry. 1. First of all, you won't ever have to worry about getting pregnant, you will never experience the fear and anxiety of having to tell your parents, "I'm pregnant.." or "I got my girlfriend pregnant".Pregnancy should be a happy announcement after marriage. 2. You will never have to worry about getting "STD"[Sexually Transmitted Disease]. 3. You'll be free to grow emotionally, psychologically, intellectualy and spiritually. 4. You will feel good about yourself, knowing that you didn't give in to your partner pressure. 5. By not falling into "the sex-trap" , you're building your psychological strength and self-esteem. 6. You will be setting an example for others, siblings, friends and people around you, showing them that sexual activity can be avoided. 7. You will be protecting your own reputation, no lady wants to be known as "Loose" or "Olosho", no guy wants the reputation of being a "Stud" or "Maniaks". 8. You will known for certain that he or she cares about you for who are and not just for your physical person. 9. You will be free to channel your energies into healthy activities such as Reading, Studies, Sports, etc. 10. The last buh not least... You will learn not confuse love with sex.Sex can be spontaneous and brief (A One Night Stand).Love takes time to grow and lasts forever. NB I created this thread to advice everyone(Both Gender) not to think "Sex is Love" before marriage.A guy can have sex with you today and dump you tomorrow.And will always badmouth you in front of his friends. Say No To Sex Before Marriage.. I drop my pen at this juncture. Most of them need to be advice on why not to have sex before marriage.